Although our flight back to North America was long and uneventful, it did give us a good opportunity to reflect on the last six months. If we were to summarize our trip in just a few words we would describe it as being an amazing, exhilarating and eye-opening experience. We must also admit that in some places the travel was exhausting and uncomfortable. However, the sites seen and people met make the positives of this trip strongly outweigh any of the negatives.
People keep asking us to name our favourite place or the best thing we did, but it's not that easy. We have a hard time agreeing on our top 10 experiences, let alone the top 5 or 3. No one experience stands out as being somehow far superior to the rest. To many people this will sound like a cop-out, and maybe it is, but hey, it was our adventure and we can summarize it anyway we want. For kids its a little easier. Aidan puts zip-lining in Costa Rica at the front of his list every time.
Mike and I put the following, in no particular order, at the top of our list:
- Climbing in the ruins of Macchu Picchu and the Sacred Valley in Peru;
- Gazing at the marvel that is Angkor Wat;
- The vastness and wildlife of the Serengeti;
- Ballooning over the tower karst in China;
- Enjoying the sun and sand on the beaches in Indonesia and Thailand;
- Seeing the other side of life in the slums of Nairobi; and
- Experiencing the richness of the culture in Marrakesh.
Probably the second most asked question we get is: has the trip changed you? The answer is yes, but not in the way we expected. I think we both went away thinking we would have a spiritual conversion - to drop our old life and take up humanitarian causes in Borneo, or move the family to Singapore. But that didn't happen. What did change was our perspective on life. Going around the world made us realize that we all live in different realities. The reality of our lives in Edmonton and what is deemed "a crisis" here in Canada is not the same as the reality of people in Africa or South America. Most people realize this, but there is a big difference between saying it and experiencing it. For 6 months we got to sample a much bigger world reality - with all its beauty and its failings.
Living out of a backpack also made us realize how little we really need to be happy. A positive attitude, a place to sleep, and a few clothes is all we really needed. Now that we are home, we have decided to stay focused on living more simply, making time for family, and staying healthy. We sincerely feel that we have gained perspective and grown as individuals.
In summary, we will remember this trip as being the most wonderful gift that we have ever given ourselves. We felt very much alive - much more so than at almost any other point in our lives. Are we sad about our adventure being over? Yes. Would we do it again? You bet. We have already started making the list of places to visit for the next trip. Guatemala, Egypt, Turkey, Vietnam, Laos.....
Figuring out how to wrap up our trip journal is tough. So in the interests of ending this on a light note, we offer up the following tongue-in-cheek top 10 list:
10) Best coffee - whether you consider it gross or not, the civet coffee in Indonesia is pretty damm good.
9) Best world wide franchise opportunity - KFC (the world loves fried chicken).
8) Most annoying sound - tie between the Imams call to prayer in Indonesia at 4:00 a.m. and the howler monkeys overhead at 3:00 a.m. in Costa Rica.
7) Worst hostel - the Floating Island hostel in Phnom Penh where you were lucky not to fall through the floor into the lake.
6) Best hostel - tie between the Wildebeest Lodge in Nairobi for the fabulous people and beautiful grounds and the the Riad Pushka in Marrakesh for the sumptuous room.
5) Best cheap food - Pad Thai from the hawker stalls in Bangkok and the Zanzibar pizza in Tanzania was a great deal too.
4) Best airline and most inept airline - the best were Qatar Airways and Cathay Pacific and the most inept prize goes to Royal Air Maroc for losing our luggage on a direct flight from Lisbon, Portugal to Casablanca, Morocco.
3) Worst assumption made about Western tourists at the hostels - they all love Nescafe instant coffee (gaaaaa!)
2) Most dangerous place to eat - buffets at four star resorts because we got food poisoning twice at them on two different continents.
1) Most challenging aspect of world travel - schoolwork (Aidan); getting used to the squat toilets (Susan); falling victim to the touts (Mike).
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Happy travels everyone, and thanks again for the support and comments during our trip,
Michael, Susan and Aidan If anyone reading this blog would like to talk to us about the trip, feel free to contact us at michael.jay.mcdermott at (substitute the @ sign folks) gmail.com